A Crisis Of Confidence And Building Myself Back Up Again

We aren’t all confident 24/7 I mean it isn’t physically possible and as of late I have had a serious crisis of confidence in basically every aspect of my life. I’m at that point where I’m thinking honestly what is wrong with me? What is going on with me? So much has been going on lately, from being ill, to my mental health, to lots of things changing, after a long workout, some yoga, a load of coffee and a chat with myself, I feel like I’m closer to feeling more like me again.

We all have days where we don’t feel like we an take on the world, I mean just making my mind up what to eat is a struggle.

When it comes to my blog and the way I’m feeling about myself, that is where I’ve been having the biggest crisis of confidence. I mean I tend to intertwine them because my blog is an extension of me, and I try to put myself out there as much as possible, and I currently feel like I’m in limbo.

I am the kind of person that when I get something in my head (like my blog isn’t good enough or I’m not comfortable with myself) I cannot get it out of my head. Because that is exactly what I need, my thoughts to be like a rabbit wheel. Happy days.

However I am kind of at the point where I have realised that I need to build myself up a bit. It’s not all bad, I am not as bad as my head seems to think it is.

I’m going to take steps forward to build my confidence with my blog, become more comfortable with myself and do what is best for me.

In terms of building my confidence with my blog I am going to do things that are still true to me, sharing things I really enjoy and not being worried about what people think because I am one of those people who really care about what others think.

In terms of myself I just want to be happy with myself. I need to appreciate that my body does so much for me, there will be good and bad days but not to beat myself up about it. I am happy and healthy, I’m going to appreciate the good days and remember that the bad days won’t last forever.

When you’re having a bad day with how you feel about yourself, remember that bad days won’t last forever, and the good days are the days we need to remember.

Stay strong, it gets better.

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28 Comments

  1. 09/02/2018 / 10:56 am

    I honestly feel like you’ve had a look at inside my head just wrote a blog post about me and the way I’m feeling lately. I can relate to every single word that you said babe, I’ve been feeling exactly the same these past few weeks and it’s been annoying me so much because I can’t seem to shake the feeling off. Thank you so much for sharing such an open blog post beautiful, please know you’re not the only one feeling this way. I’m sending you so much love. 🌸✨

    With love, Alisha Valerie x | http://www.alishavalerie.com

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      10/02/2018 / 9:31 am

      I’m just trying to work on me and build myself back up because I know I am stronger than this and I know I can get through it! Here if you need anything angel! xxxx

  2. 09/02/2018 / 6:35 pm

    YES! Building yourself up is the key to surviving basically anything! You must always put yourself first and make the best relationship you have, your relationship with yourself.

    XO, Harley
    http://thebalancedbelles.com

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      10/02/2018 / 9:31 am

      The most important relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself! xxxxx

  3. Jas
    09/02/2018 / 9:35 pm

    This blog post is just beautiful Amie and I can completely see where you’re coming from. I feel I’m on the same boat with you and it does suck! I really need to build up my confidence xxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      10/02/2018 / 9:31 am

      It’s amazing how many people are relating to this! I’m always here if you need anything angel! xxxx

  4. 10/02/2018 / 8:52 am

    I totally understand what it’s like, having no confidence. My manifests in the way I look more so than anything else but I can certainly hit a brick wall with other areas of my life too. Your blog is fab Amie and I know sometimes when you’re feeling like this, nothing anyone says makes any difference but it is (: I hope you manage to get a hold of this feeling soon xxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      10/02/2018 / 9:33 am

      Thank you so much angel, you don’t realise how much that means to me my darling. I’m trying to just be strong and remember it isn’t forever! xxxx

  5. becca
    11/02/2018 / 11:28 am

    This is beautifully written! so true x

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      11/02/2018 / 2:58 pm

      Thank you so much angel, I really appreciate it! xxxx

  6. Erin
    11/02/2018 / 12:18 pm

    I love this so much lovely, and so completely true. I really struggle with self confidence sometimes, but you just need to do what you are passionate about, I love your blog, and I love your content, stick to what you love best and you will find your confidence from there! 🙂

    Erin || MakeErinOver

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      11/02/2018 / 2:59 pm

      That means so much to me Erin honestly, I’m working so hard on my photos and content it’s nice to know people enjoy what I do! You’re always so lovely angel. Always here if you need anything! xxxx

  7. Megan mccoig
    11/02/2018 / 1:28 pm

    This post is so true and honest and I love that about your blog posts. It’s exactly how I feel to so I’m so happy I can read and agree with someone xxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      11/02/2018 / 3:00 pm

      Thank you so much sweetness, I just like to make sure that people see my blog is just an extension of me! xxxxx

  8. 11/02/2018 / 2:03 pm

    I completely get what you mean Amie, I’ve felt exactly the same recently. I think a lot of it stems from comparing yourself to others too, and it’s so hard to stop! xo
    Sian | sian-kathrine.blogspot.co.uk

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      11/02/2018 / 3:01 pm

      Comparing yourself to others is one of my biggest downfalls! I am always like I could be doing better, people are better than me and everything, but I really do sell myself short, as do you! xxxx

  9. 11/02/2018 / 6:33 pm

    I totally understand everything you have said in this post! It’s so hard to not compare yourself to others but you just need to look at you and what you have achieved. I’m so hard on myself all the time and sell myself short but I’ve started to keep a note book next to my bed to write at least one positive thing about that day down 🙂 xx

    Yasmina | The July Journal

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      13/02/2018 / 6:07 pm

      That is such an amazing idea, I think that so many people, including me starting it back up again will benefit from the notebook tip! xxxx

  10. 11/02/2018 / 7:53 pm

    I can relate so much Amie.
    I have a history of low self-esteem and confidence. I still struggle but I ca say I’m getting much better.
    This post is beautifully written and love your content 😉

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      13/02/2018 / 6:08 pm

      Thank you so much my darling, I really appreciate it angel honestly! Always here if you need anything! xxxx

  11. 12/02/2018 / 10:24 am

    Reading this feels like you’ve just raided my diary! Wow! So profound and also so real! I am so glad I am not the only one feeling like this!

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      13/02/2018 / 6:09 pm

      You’re not alone angel! I’m always here for you no matter what angel! xxxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      13/02/2018 / 6:12 pm

      Awh thank you so much angel, I really appreciate it! xxxx

  12. Amy
    15/02/2018 / 2:15 pm

    I think everyone has this type of crisis at some point; but you need to remember that someone will be interested in what you write. I praise you so much for writing this, you go girl!

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      16/02/2018 / 10:39 am

      Thank you so much angel, I really appreciate it! xxx

  13. 17/02/2018 / 9:22 pm

    I am shocked that you question how amazing your blog is!! I’ve thoroughly enjoyed everything I’ve read! Keep going and as you say these days don’t last forever. Lots of love xxxxxxx

    lucylovesbeautyxo.com

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      18/02/2018 / 2:46 pm

      Awh thank you so much sweetness, I really appreciate it! xxxxx

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