When People Try To Knock You Down

This is a seriously personal post to me, because I’ve had a lot of negativity recently and it has been bloody awful. So I’m trying to be positive and be happy and use my blog to express myself because it really helps me to get everything out in the open. As most people will know I’m plus size, I’m not the skinniest person in the world and I’m well aware that but do you know what I’m working on it, I’m working on making sure I’m healthy and that is the important thing. The worst thing is when someone makes you feel like you’re less of a person because of your size.

I’m aware that I’m not going to please everybody, I know that, and most people probably think I’m unhealthy (fyi I’m not I eat so much fruit and veg I should probably look like one) I have all things like chocolate in moderation but do you know what I’m healthy. I don’t look it but I am. Never judge a book by it’s cover people!

To the trolls and the douchebags who feel like it is okay to hurt others,

Bringing someone down doesn’t make you a better person, it’s not big and it’s not clever. Honestly. If you’ve ever been put in a situation where people feel the need to knock someone down about the way they look, their personality, or just general characteristics that is just wrong and completely unfair.

I’ve been told to die, stop eating, you name it I’ve had it because I’m plus size! I think because I put a lot of my life online people feel the need to comment, I have a pretty thick skin but do you know what it’s not necessary.

Just because people live their lives online doesn’t mean you have a right to comment.

A little reminder for the people who might have experienced crap like I have:

You’re beautiful, you’re gorgeous, you’re talented, you’re kind, you’re caring, you’re honest. Don’t let anyone ever make you feel less.

You might not love yourself everyday, but do little things to show your body it is beautiful, and that you care, remember you only get one body and it’s a fabulous one.

Have you ever experienced something like that? Let me know in the comments!

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14 Comments

  1. 31/07/2017 / 11:16 am

    Sending all my love <3 You are beautiful inside and out! x

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      31/07/2017 / 1:35 pm

      Thank you so much angel, that really does mean a lot! xxxxx

  2. 31/07/2017 / 3:32 pm

    Anyone who has said those awful things lead a sad life! People forget no matter what size you are, you can still be healthy. You are gorgeous the way you are!

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      02/08/2017 / 1:58 pm

      Thank you so much lovely, I think people honestly think you’re supposed to be one way to be healthy and it’s upsetting but I’m trying to be comfortable in my own skin xxxx

  3. 03/08/2017 / 8:03 am

    Aime! I’m not skinny either yet you always leave me such beautiful comment on my blog when I do outfit pics!!! You are a babe and one day you will see what everyone else sees!!!!!

    Xxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      06/08/2017 / 12:31 pm

      Awh thank you so much my lovely, it honestly means a lot, I’m just trying to do what is best for me, and it is taking a lot of time! xxxx

  4. 03/08/2017 / 10:08 am

    I’m Not skinny either Hun! I have put on so much weight over the last 2 years, I’m not unhealthy either a lot of my weight gain is down To my medication, people seem to think I sit and eat all day lol I Actually hate that others have such an opinion on others weight it’s so wrong. You’re beautiful Amie and I wish I could sit here and say as long as your happy sod everyone else blah blah but I cant as I’m currently so depressed and down about my weight I feel like a hypocrite lol . Xx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      06/08/2017 / 12:36 pm

      That is the annoying thing, people can be so judgemental it is ridiculous! Thank you so much darling it honestly means a lot! xxxxx

  5. Megan McCoig
    04/08/2017 / 3:49 pm

    Amie this is such a beautiful post. Never listen to what anyone like that says, you’re so beautiful. You truly are girl. Love reading your posts, your writing style is so genuine xx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      06/08/2017 / 12:36 pm

      Thank you so much darling, that really does mean so much to me! xxxx

  6. 06/08/2017 / 3:40 pm

    I just DO NOT GET why you receive so much hate – people clearly do not know you because you’re an amazing person!! Wish people would realise that there’s more to life than weight! Don’t let the hate get to you xxxx

    Jasmine || http://www.blogsallbeautyy.blogspot.co.uk

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      14/08/2017 / 3:29 pm

      Same sometimes honestly, but do you know what I am wonderful and they just want to bring me down! I don’t need their negativity! xxxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      14/08/2017 / 3:37 pm

      Awh thank you so much my darling! It really does mean a lot! I’m so glad you liked my posts and the way I write, honestly your comment has made my day! xxxx

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