I’ve been thinking lately a lot about my life, where I want to go, what I want to do and where I want to be in my life. I have an incredible husband, you will probably get bored of me bashing on about it, but outside of my marriage, what do I want? I see people who are younger than me and have their life together and I’m holy guacamole am I supposed to have my life sorted by now? Let’s be honest before we start, I most definitely don’t.
I feel like I make a lot of mistakes, I’m by no means perfect (I wrote about the mistakes I’ve made right here) and as a child we all have this vision of the way that we want our lives to be, where we want to be in our lives but it doesn’t always work out like that. Do you know what though, even though I didn’t have it planned out this way I’m at my happiest.
I feel like I still have so much growing up to do, I still have so much to learn about life and I think having everything together is more of a process of life.
I don’t even know if I will ever have it all together but as long as I am trying every day to balance my life, to make it work, to be happy and healthy!
I think what doesn’t help is I turn 24 in August, and even though my family say oh that’s young you will figure it out, honestly I feel like I’m so far behind it’s ridiculous. What I try to remind myself of is the fact that everyone has a rollercoaster life, we all go through different things, with my mental health it has honestly thrown my life off course, but I’m so much better than I was and I feel fabulous!
What I’ve learned is the worst thing I can do is to compare where I am in my life to others, it’s not fair on them and it’s definitely not fair on me. Just because they are at their point doesn’t mean I have to be there right this second. We all go through something, we are all on this crazy rollercoaster, and it’s not a race to see who can get to the finish line first!
Don’t feel like you have to have everything together by a certain age, you don’t!
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