So while I was shopping on Thursday I had a big on an experience with someone, now normally I am the type of person who does take things to heart, that is one of my biggest downfalls, and someone mentioned something under their breath. Now I totally accept that people are allowed to have their own opinions of people and situations, I am not saying people can’t have an opinion, however, there is a difference between that and judging someone the way that I was judged.
Now I know that I am not the smallest person in the world, I have lumps and bumps and I have a rather large bum, however I am working on becoming a healthier person, and I guess by the way I look you probably can’t see that. However someone decided that they would turn around and say “be careful she might eat the whole shop.” Now honestly was there any need for that? Was there any need for someone to say that?
I have to admit I was incredibly bloated, I mean it was shark week, I was in pain which usually leaves me stuck in bed the pain gets that bad, but I went out to see if it would help, and I definitely realised that it didn’t help, not even a little bit.
During that moment I was trying my best to hold back the tears, I literally felt like the world could swallow me up whole. I kept pulling on my top and to try and hide myself, and nothing was working, the feeling I hate the most is being self conscious about myself, especially when I try my best to build my self confidence on a regular basis and to learn to love my ever changing body.
So why should you stop judging others? Well there are a lot of reasons to be honest, and I am going to talk about this a lot because I think it is something that we can all learn from and move forward with!
You don’t know what journey a person has been on and until you walk in their shoes you have no idea! I am on a journey with my mental health and my fitness journey, and you have no idea what struggles they are going through at home, in their life in general. Don’t judge what you don’t know about.
People should understand that you should treat people the way you would want to be treated. Would you want people to judge you just from the way you look, the way you act or your background? I mean seriously, is this something you want in your life? I know it is something that I would never even want in my life, nor would I even entertain it.
Learn to appreciate what you have because when you do, you know that the negativity that people try to spread, then you realise that their words can’t hurt you, they are the people that you don’t need in your life.
When it comes to people judging you, you honestly should focus on what the people who do know you say, because people can say mean things when they don’t know you because they are horrendous people, and you don’t need their negativity in your life, you’re too fabulous and amazing for that!
You’re beautiful, fabulous, amazing and wonderful in every way possible, don’t ever let anyone tell you that you’re not!
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