I Choose Happiness

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Happiness is something that I treasure the most, especially after everything that has happened with my mental health, but also throughout my life in general, but honestly I feel like I am finally getting somewhere, I am focusing more on the happy life because in all honesty everyone deserves some sort of happiness right? I mean honestly it has been a long old road to happiness, especially with all of the negativity that I have received in terms of my weight and the way I look, calling me all of the names under the sun which is one of the most heart breaking things but do you know what I’ve learned that my happiness is more important than anything.

There are moments when you just want to cry because people just say things that really do hurt, I mean I wonder why people even bothered to speak to me? What do they get from it? I mean honestly? Do they take pride in picking on people? Or maybe they just get a buzz from it, who knows all I know is words can bloody hurt sometimes! I know sometimes people say be strong, you know the truth, but then I think is that the impression I honestly give to people when they first meet me?

I promise I will get to the point of why I am writing this, and why it is important to choose happiness!

I have got to the point where I’m like seriously why do I care anymore? I mean why should I in all fairness? Why should I give myself such a hard time because someone is telling me that I am not the way they want me to be? I mean why should that bother me anyway? Yet it does. Or should I say did.

I am at that point where I honestly couldn’t care less about what people have to say to me. Yes the words can hurt, and yes people can have their opinion of me, but that should never stop me from living my life.

The reason that I decided to write this in the first place is to help others who might be going through a similar journey, maybe you’re struggling with people making comments about you, about your weight, about your appearance or maybe you just want to be happier in general because you deserve to be!

We are all guilty of living that poor me because something bad happened to me, and I know I do it sometimes, I wallow in self pity but in honesty where is it getting me? I could be using that the achieve my dreams, to achieve everything that I want and have literally all the positive vibes flowing around me like places around the earth. Sometimes you do need to have those pity moments especially if something really bad happens and you think why is this happening to me, but it’s important to remember, bad thinks happen everyday, you have to ride that storm, ride that wave, take the world as it comes and remember it will get better and it will be okay.

I chose happiness because in all honesty I can’t change what people’s perception of me is, they might like me, they might not, but guess what, that isn’t my problem! I am a fantastic human being and if they don’t like me then that is their problem! I know that I can never be everyone’s cup of tea, that isn’t possible in life but do you know what I am the cup of tea for the people who do appreciate the kind of person I am.

Reminder – Never forget the absolutely incredible person that you are, you are a beautiful person inside and out, negativity and fear should never stop you from anything, especially from being yourself. Only you can write your own happiness, only you can control your life and where you want it to go, you want something you better work for it and hard!

Love Amie 2016

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8 Comments

  1. 27/04/2016 / 12:20 pm

    This was such a lovely post! I’ve had a rough few days and this post really helped to get me out of that stump! also you’re very pretty :3
    xxxx

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      29/04/2016 / 11:08 am

      Thank you so much darling it means a lot! If you ever need any support I’m always here!💜

  2. 27/04/2016 / 9:19 pm

    Great post! It took some time for me, but I’ve finally come to realise its not worth letting what other people think of me affect me. You can choose happiness, and I choose it too! x http://www.aimeeraindropwrites.co.uk x

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      29/04/2016 / 11:09 am

      PREACH Aimee! It’s so important to put yourself first because in all honesty we’re worth more than that and our lives are important!💜

  3. 28/04/2016 / 1:47 am

    Such a lovely, uplifting, yet difficult subject. I suffer from anxiety post my last year health issues and nothing really helps. I get great days and bad ones. I try to relax & ‘explain’ myself that’s all in my head, but it doesn’t work always. I now find myself things I relate to and enjoy doing and I hope to beat anxiety arse 🙂

    Awesome post! Thanks for sharing lovely X

    Love, D X
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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      29/04/2016 / 11:11 am

      Thank you so much Dorota, we are stronger than this anxiety, and we will get there soon! Please stay strong, if you need anything please do message me, I will support you as much as I can!💜

  4. 29/04/2016 / 6:30 pm

    Aww! That is so nice. Very uplifting for when you’re feeling down. Thank you 🙂

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      amiecadwallader@outlook.com
      30/04/2016 / 7:44 pm

      Thank you so much sweetheart it means a lot!💜

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